Clarity Session

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A-FEST JAMAICA 2017 THOUGHTS AND LESSONS

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The struggle is real after A-fest Jamaica 2017. It’s never been harder to find words to describe an experience, because how can you really call something that literally completely shifts you and your life’s trajectory in unfathomable ways an “experience”? Can you really call people who help you see your soul, just “friends”? Is it […]

SEXUAL DESPERATION TO LIBERATION

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It took me four months to decide… Enough is enough, Alexa. If you don’t put yourself out there, you’ll just keep feeling sorry for yourself. You were in a sexless relationship, which you left so you could embrace your sexuality for the first time, and what do you do instead? You choose to hide from […]

ON SATURDAY, I WENT TO A SWINGERS CLUB…

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Growing up, if I really think about it, I wasn’t taught all that much about how relationships were supposed to develop. I was basically left to just “wing it”, which I think is how the majority of us are taught. I knew what was the norm, and I knew that if I didn’t achieve that […]

I THOUGHT I HAD CHLAMYDIA

I THOUGHT I HAD CHLAMYDIA

I’m not sure if I actually had chlamydia, but I took some antibiotics anyway. As it turns out, it’s quite a common occurrence. It’s especially common in places like… the deep south of America, where “abstinence only” sex education is the mandate and young people are not given any useful information on how sex actually works in […]

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KICK YOUR BORING SEX HABIT

How to Kick Your Boring Sex Habit

Every Tuesday, you do the same thing. Wake up, have breakfast, go to work, come home, have dinner and commence your weekly duty of “lovemaking”. These days, it seems as though sex is just another thing to tick off of your to-do list. You ask yourself, where did the passion go? We used to be […]

The Butterfly Effect of a Sexual Abuse Survivor: The Joyful Little Girl Returns from a Forever of Fear

The Butterfly Effect of A Sexual Abuse Survivor