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A-FEST JAMAICA 2017 THOUGHTS AND LESSONS

The struggle is real after A-fest Jamaica 2017. It’s never been harder to find words to describe an experience, because ...
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SEXUAL DESPERATION TO LIBERATION

It took me four months to decide... Enough is enough, Alexa. If you don’t put yourself out there, you’ll just ...
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ON SATURDAY, I WENT TO A SWINGERS CLUB…

Growing up, if I really think about it, I wasn’t taught all that much about how relationships were supposed to ...
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I THOUGHT I HAD CHLAMYDIA

I THOUGHT I HAD CHLAMYDIA

I’m not sure if I actually had chlamydia, but I took some antibiotics anyway. As it turns out, it’s quite a common ...
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She has DADDY ISSUES

She has DADDY ISSUES

When I was a little girl, the weeks before and after my birthday were filled with palpable anticipation, but it ...
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How to Win in your Romantic Relationships

I dated a guy briefly when I worked on luxury cruise ships. He was a high-ranking officer and I was ...
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