What you should know about the Violet Butterfly. . .
This entire space is dedicated to education.
With knowledge comes power. When you know more about yourself you are more connected with yourself, you love yourself more, you provide for those around you more and you essentially raise the vibration of the planet.
I know that sounds pretty profound, but your existence is in fact, profound.
The fact that you found yourself in this space either means that you are ready to make some drastic changes in your life, you are tired of living in the dark when it comes to relationships and sexuality, you are playfully curious, or you have no clue how you got here. I’ll tell you, if you have no idea, then it means you were led here. And that is pretty damn cool!
The Violet Butterfly blog
This is where I get to share my personal stories and perspectives regarding breaking social constructs, mostly in the area of relationships and sexuality, though I change it up a bit here and there!
Many different products and educational materials are made available here. Everything from how to have whole body orgasms with Tantric practices, to how to safely enter a BDSM/Kink scene is readily accessible.
A group of butterflies is called a kaleidoscope. This is where you will have access to group discussions and shares with people who are tantric practitioners, stay at home moms/dads, those who are recently divorced, active members in the kink/bdsm community, people in committed relationships looking to explore and so on. Here is a forum where every question regarding modern/alternative relationships and sexuality are welcome. Discussions are positive and nonjudgmental. Everyone has something to learn, myself included! My favorite part about this group of unique, multi dimensional people is how wonderful and considerate each member is to the others. Please, only request to join if the mission and message resonates with you.
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I believe wholeheartedly that one of the main reasons people hold themselves back in life has nothing to do with the obvious and more to do with the personal. I believe that through sexuality exploration, you have the ability to find a never-ending reservoir to your personal self-love. I encourage learning about different types of people, because with understanding comes love. This increases your likeability and trustworthiness in many areas of your life.
I also believe that the majority of people on the earth are attempting to lead a life that is very difficult to achieve because, quite frankly, it goes against their nature. It is another mission of mine to remove as much guilt, jealousy and unnecessary pain from people’s lives.
Again, through understanding and education I encourage people (singles, couples, gays straights, bis and beyond) to, no matter what, live life on YOUR terms. Do the work to determine what it is you actually want. Leave yourself some space to understand that there are things you don’t know that you don’t know about your self and live each day as a magical, glorious adventure of exploration.
No matter what, I love you. . .EVERYTHING about you.
The Violet Butterfly
Alexa N. Martinez
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