3-Day Online Event

I joke about this frequently that people think I know a whole lot more than I actually do. . .and maybe I actually do know more than I think I do but. . .

I think more than WHAT I know is WHO I know.

Something I have not been afraid of since the day I began this entrepreneurial journey of mine is reaching out and making connections.

Over the last year, I have made TONS in comparison to any other time in my life and I am so grateful for my willingness to always “put myself out there”.

I am especially grateful for my tenacity and ability to connect with people when people within my growing community space have questions or concerns that go beyond my area of expertise or at times when their queries so straight up and over my head, because even if I can not assist them directly I surely can point them in the right direction or connect them with someone who will be able to assist with utmost integrity and love.

Speaking of these connections of mine and these topics that go beyond my reach, I’d like to bring up a few that are often big fat elephants in the room when discussing sex and love – TRAUMA, SHAME, TRIGGERS and then finding PLEASURE, BLISS & ORGASM through it all.

“Trauma” is a topic of conversation at least weekly within the private community space and I recognize every time the threads ensure that I can only participate so much before the discussion reaches out of my comfort zone. But I know people want to talk about it all in more depth. Hell, so do I, so that I may be better equipped to handle navigating the conversations when they arise!

Therefore and with all that said, I decided to reach out to my BEST resources for understanding all of this – Galen Fous & Gaia Morrissette

And I asked them if they would be willing to put on a 3-day workshop with me all about understanding sexual trauma, BDSM and kink regarding trauma, healing, pleasure and orgasm.

Trauma, shame, triggers, etc. show up in many different ways in our sex and love lives and I know that these are just the right people to get to help break it all down into terms and actionable steps you can integrate and grow from.



3-Day Online Event

Hosted by Alexa Martinez, founder of The Violet Butterfly & The Kaleidoscope –

a brand, blog, podcast and community revolving sex, love and modern relationships.

with guest Experts:

Galen Fous – Kink Positive Therapist

Gaia Morrissette – Sexual Wellness & BDSM Life Coach and Trauma Expert

Event details

January 17, 18 & 19

3 days, 1 guest per day to cover the following topics in detail:

–       Day 1

o    Gaia

What is trauma and how does is show up after it occurs?

How did it interfere with your sexual development?

How can you reclaim your sexual empowerment?

–       Day 2

o    Galen

What is kink, BDSM and alternative sexual expressions?

How does trauma transcend into varied sexual preferences?

How do you introduce and explore them safely?

How do you communicate these preferences and desires with your partner(s)?

–       Day 3

o    Alexa

Saying YES to pleasure, touch and orgasm after trauma and while navigating kink

Self-pleasure before partnered pleasure

How do you fully surrender and let go to experience your birthright to pleasure and orgasm

How do you reclaim pleasure in YOUR safest way possible?

1 hour or more – cofacilitated live stream each day with a different lead expert

Activities and tools from each instructor will be provided

All live streams will be recorded and available for replay (for 1 week).

Worksheets/activities/free offers will be available

About your experts:

Galen Fous MTP: Kink-positive therapist, author, educator & sex researcher

Galen lectures at universities, grad schools and sexuality conferences on the sexual psychology of Kink-oriented sexuality.  He has been featured in numerous national media such as Playboy radio and Psychology Today for his innovative views on conscious sexuality and the archetypal, mythic nature of Fetishsexuality – aka Kink.  He has a Masters in Transpersonal Psychology. He supports clients to learn to be honest and empowered in expressing their authentic sexuality and resolve the decades of fear, shame and judgments that may hold their authentic desire back. His latest book is Decoding Your Kink. Go to GalenFous.com for more.

Gaia S. Morrissette has dedicated her life to making the world a happier, sexier and safer place for us all. She is a world-renowned Sexual Wellness Coach, BDSM Life Coach, Instructor, Author, International Speaker and founder of Succulent Living. She makes sex safe, makes sex better and helps you take it to next level. For true Sexual Wellness to happen you must look at these 5 aspects: Play, Sensuality, Sexuality, Exploration and Sacred. Her published book: Stop! Drop! & Wiggle! explores the first aspect, Founder/Department Head of the Sexual Wellness Coaching Certification Program @ The Succulent Living Institute

Alexa is a sex coach and mentors on a mission to reform sex education and sexuality expression across the globe. She is from the deep south of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through taboos regarding sex, it’s her. She is the founder of The Violet Butterfly & The Kaleidoscope, a blog, brand, podcast and community with love, sex & relationships as the central focus. Alexa also speaks internationally on the same subjects. http://thevioletbutterfly.com/


From Gaia:

A specifically curated grounding meditation

Her laughter track for mood enhancement

Her “Ask yourself on a sex date” exercise

How to take a body exploration bath exercise

And 15% off any other service she is currently providing!

From Galen:

Participation in the Personal Erotic Myth survey and research

4 Critical Guidelines to Know before you Explore Dominance and submission

From Alexa:

Understanding the sexual you – journaling prompts for self-discovery

Audio Guide to assist you with going through the official BDSM test

20% off your next selected 3-day event

As soon as you confirm your place for the event, you will be invited to a special, separate community space that will be open and available for one full week including the days of the event. Inside the group, space will be the link to join the zoom calls live or you will be able to watch directly from within the group.

All guest bonuses will be made available to the group and you will have the space to share and communicate on a more personal level with others who are working through and absorbing the content.